Sometimes, people want unbiased, professional advice, but don’t want ongoing sessions.
Consultation can help if:
You are a partner to a woman who is TTC (trying to conceive) or pregnant
A family member or a grandparent who wants to help but doesn’t want to interfere, step on toes, or offend
A partner to someone who already has their own children, and you want to know how to engage in a healthy way
Anyone experiencing hyperemesis gravidarum or has a loved one going through it (I had it. I get it.)
A parent who has a few questions about what is “normal” or “typical” in a given developmental phase
A parent who is planning to introduce a new partner to their children and wants to do so in the healthiest way
Has a child with a sensitivity in any given area and wants to discuss what parent choices (schools, activities, whether to push or let go) can best support their child
Consulting with a professional can be beneficial because:
A professional is unbiased and has no agenda other than to help. They are outside of family system and can therefore see a given situation more clearly, since they are not influenced by family history or family dynamics.
They are an expert in a specific field, and many times, in a specific niche within the specific field. They have advanced degrees, are familiar with the research and new happenings in the field, and remain updated on new information as it emerges. They continuously deepen their knowledge through trainings, conferences, and consulting with other professionals.
A professional is experienced. Ideally a consultant has at least 10+ years in the field, which means they have likely worked with hundreds of children and families. Coupled with the two points above, knowledge and wisdom gained through this type of experience can offer a benefit to clients that can be extremely valuable.